Apart from scarcity mindset, the most common factor in Delusional Altruism is the fear of losing control. Donors fear the money they give away will not be properly utilized. Therefore, they want to dictate exactly how it’s going to be spent and the whole process. They like to determine what the need is, the best solution for it, and benchmarks in terms of when and what they will allocate, rather than entrust the people who are really working on it.
The second fear is the fear of exposure. High net-worth individuals often fear people knowing about their wealth for a lot of reasons, one of them is the fear that every time you are out, you might get asked for money, and you often find yourself in a difficult situation. Plus, a lot of donors feel guilty about their wealth. Often, they give anonymously.
The third is the fear of learning and discovering that you may not be as good in finding solutions to the causes you choose to support. People equate wealth with intellect. You kind of assume if somebody is successful in business, they must know how to solve homelessness or whatever the issue might be. That may not be true and it rattles a few donors. With all of this fear, you cannot be successful because fear prevents us from unleashing our potential.
Fear also slows down the speed of decision-making by funders and non-profits, you mention in the book. What else contributes to slow execution?
Yes, the slowness problem is a result of fear experienced by donors — they like to wrap themselves up in data because they are afraid of making a decision. It’s very common in philanthropy foundations to spend up to 18 months to develop a strategic plan, after that spend three months graphically designing and writing it up, and then wait for another two months till the next board meeting to get a nod. So, you have already spent two years towards putting out a plan. Well, the problem is, two years later, the world has changed.
Also, the slowness comes from the minimal accountability there is in philanthropy, unlike in for-profit companies. Both donors and non-profits need to be quicker in decision making. They need to be agile and adaptive. When it comes to strategy, they have to think about the next twelve months, not the next five years because we can’t predict that much. It should be basic things like, where are we today, where do we want to be a year down the line, and what are the three things we need to do to get there. It is as simple as that.
But then, foundations suffer from one other thing I call ‘bureaucratic bloats’. This happens even in the smallest of them. It’s a belief that we need a complex application process, or that you make decisions only twice a year or only when the family meets in person which can’t happen now, or that we require all these reports that are actually never read but you need them anyway.
Let me give you an example. One of my clients was the second-in-command of a foundation in Cleveland. That foundation made site visits with all of their grantees. They received proposals three times a year and made site visits with all of them if they met certain criteria. It was part of their culture. They involved the board, all their staff, it was a big deal. All fine. And then, this same woman went as CEO to a different foundation. It was a brand new foundation, and it was herself, her two part-time employees, and a brand new board, which didn’t know anything about philanthropy. She was overwhelmed and wondered how on earth she would do all of those site visits. Well, you can’t and you don’t even have to.
That’s the point about bureaucracy — many of the practices don’t happen out of bad intent, but it’s delusional altruism because you are not thinking about the fastest way or the most effective use of resources.
You have spoken about effectiveness in decision making, tighter execution and accountability, all of which are really corporate practices. But, what is it that fundamentally differentiates a corporate for-profit versus a non-profit, apart from the fact that the latter does not aim to maximize monetary value for shareholders?