A diplomat’s wife whose husband was once posted in Tokyo makes a case for the city as Asia’s most happening destination, but I’m not convinced. While many of us might leap at the chance to visit Japan on work, it doesn’t hold the same appeal as a holiday destination. Do I know it has a vibrant nightlife? Given the popularity of its karaoke bars, I shudder — I’m not up to spending my evenings in alcohol-soused lounges where badly sung international favourites pass for music. In any case, the touchstone for a family vacation must include, besides the obligatory sightseeing, exciting dining options and even greater shopping opportunities.