I knew there had to be a better way - a path by which we could put aside our differences, find common ground, and work for the greater good. This was the early 1990s, before Daniel Goleman published his game-changing 1995 book Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ. Emotional intelligence (EQ) is something no one was talking about back then; the concept was absolutely groundbreaking. When I read Goleman's book, it was like a bomb hitting me. This was it! This was the tool I'd been looking for! How much more successful would companies be with emotionally intelligent leaders at the helm? What if, instead of people feeling compelled to constantly brandish their egos, they were aware of how their emotions affected them? What if people took time for self-examination and could identify where their emotions were helping them and where they were harming them? What if an entire organization took this approach? It was an idea ahead of its time. Still, the seed was planted, and it was watered and nurtured as I evolved through the 1990s.